hehehe... tell me about responsibility... tapi gimana dong... since i dont have much to do juga gitu loh... :b
sssttt... did i have told you that i am a manager and it is the nature of my job that i demanded my sub-ordinates to work hard and finish their responsibilities by the due date?
tapi... the word which should be underlined is "responsility"... since i have done my responsibility... according to my self... hahaha... it's not my fault to do something else, right?
anyway... yang mo diceritain adalah tentang menikah dan pernikahan.... teng teng teng teng... teng teng teng teng... [pake irama march merid yyaa... tau kan? :D ]
ternyata memutuskan untuk menikah dan pernikahannya itu sendiri adalah dua yang sama2 susah untuk diputuskan... karena masing2 punya konsekuensi mereka sendiri2...
after all the considerations... [do we really consider?... :b ]... and getting to the decision: "Yes! We get married!"... then we came to the next step of deciding of how are we getting married?
liburan akhir tahun/tahun baru kemaren aku berkunjung ke rumah "camer"... dengan misi pengen dapet restu... hehe... yang akhirnya terlewat begitu saja, karena my future father in law is so busy with the plan of my future sister in law... and my future mother in law seemed to be still hesitate to let her favorite and only son to the girl she isn't really approved... [there you are see the problem, right?]
intinya... frankly, i freaked out with the idea of preparing the wedding day...
it takes 3 days to perform the ceremony... and it's going to be attended by arround 2000-3000 people... which perhaps 70%-80% of them we (the bride and groom) dont really know... and it takes several months to prepare...
then... of course we will come to the financial issue to think about...
though, perhaps im not among the girls who have specific dream of how their wedding day going to be... tentang dimana pernikahan itu akan dilaksanakan, tentang adat apa yang akan dipake... dan seterusnya dan seterusnya... i guess i've never really think of how my wedding day going to be like...
actually, perhaps i've never really think of marriage before... until... we then decided that we want to get married... i do want to get married... then... im starting to think about it a lot... and it drives me headache... :D
im a realist, and i make my self one... therefore, i dont dare to have a fancy dream of my wedding day going to be like... but then... i guess i have to be dare my self!
DARE TO DREAM, MAKE IT HAPPENS...
then im deciding where i want to get married, of how it's going to be, what ring that i want to have, of my wedding dress...
though, i'm still freaked out about of how many people will attend my wedding and i really dont want to drive my self crazy over pecking duck or should i order kambing guling instead... and of having 'mandi2'... malam midodareni [have i said it correctly... and im not even javanesse... :D ]
aarrgghhh... perhaps you guys who have done these or in the middle of doing this... you know of how it is...
actually, i dont really know... but sure im freaked out!
other thing, my baby and me agree, we dont have time to manage all those things...
then, i've arrived with the brilliant idea which solved my problem.... hehehe... you read here... i use "my"... since i havent really think of other's problems... :D
all i know... good things will come with good ways...
dan entah kenapa... the ideas all just pops out in my head... solutions just came out of no place, when i thought about it... or just came to me in various of ways... mungkin gak semua bisa dipake, tapi at least we come with alternative solutions... which just relief me... and make me more sure that actually everything are going to be just fine and according to the best of it will fit us... i hope!
but then... still i have to be a realist, right?
financial issue is the big burden of us... like... since i always wanted a solitaire for my nice finger... perhaps i've to compromise with an engraved diamonds ring... :D the signature series from orori.com...
sebenernya sih... klo bentuknya wedding band gitu... lucu juga kali ya klo tulisannya muncul pas dideketin ke api kaya' "The Lord of The Rings"... hihi... but these couple here also cute... if you can see the words written on it...
sekarang masih nyari2 ide bwat tulisannya niiihhh... hehehe...
yaaahhh... begitulah... these all are nice thought... seperti yang sekarang terjadi sama camer aku... walopun mungkin sekarang stress, pada hari H-nya juga bakalan tambah stress, but they all will worth to do... im sure! since it is the first wedding of his daughter... :)
im not going to tell yet... of how my marriage will be... since we dont really talk about it in details yet, even my mom dont know it yet... [karena masih ada sedikit kekhawatiran untuk takut mengecewakan klo... ttttiiiiiittttt... pikiran yang harus disensor... ada sedikit trauma regarding to failed marriage... hehe... not mine though... my sister's... ]
but im so exited... and im going to prepare it... with my own effort! yes! :D
hopefully... IT HAPPEN on the day i want it to happen!
ps. fotonya diambil dari kompas sama somewhere on the net for the wedding bands' pic :D
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